Bring in what you want

In such a quick world it is time to soften our approach to our life.

But first you must be willing to receive it when it appears, and to do that we have to be open. Easy said! In life, we have inbuilt defences we have developed early on. These act as barriers, walls we needed at one time to feel safe, but that now serve to shut out desired influences, like intimacy or love. We need to soften these barriers enough to let those things in when they show up. Such as when meeting new friends.

 If we are looking for love or friendship, it means first looking within ourselves to see where we are shut down, and second, not getting too fixated on where we might find the love we want. In this way, we become more open as individuals and more expansive in terms of what we see as possible.

Often, the things and people we want to draw into our lives elude us because we are unconsciously blocking them out, either with our defences, or with tunnel vision. Get to know the signposts! When this is the case, we can act by exploring and softening our barriers and expanding our vision to encompass new possibilities.

Our Tree of Life or tips on growth and removing barriers is on the web site. Mikeosullivan.net